सम्भोगबाट समाधितर्फ कसरी जाने ?

 सम्भोगबाट समाधितर्फ कसरी जाने ? 

  

"सम्भोगबाट समाधितर्फ" (Sambhog Se Samadhi Ki Or) ओशोको एउटा विवादास्पद र गहिरो पुस्तक हो, जसले मानव यौनिकता र आध्यात्मिकताबिचको सम्बन्धलाई अन्वेषण गर्छ। ओशोले यस पुस्तकमा यौन ऊर्जालाई केवल आनन्द र प्रजननको स्रोतको रूपमा नभई चेतनाको उच्च स्तरमा पुग्ने एक शक्ति पनि मानेका छन्।

पुस्तकको मुख्य बुँदाहरू:

1. सम्भोगको महत्त्व: ओशोले यौन ऊर्जालाई जीवनको आधारभूत ऊर्जा मान्छन्। सम्भोग भनेको केवल शारीरिक आनन्दको कुरा मात्र होइन, यो मानिसको ध्यान र चेतनाको नयाँ ढोकाहरू खोल्न सक्छ। यदि ठीक तरिकाले यसको अनुभूति गरियो भने, यो साधारण यौनिक चाहनाबाट समाधिको अनुभवमा रुपान्तरण हुन सक्छ।

2. ऊर्जाको रूपान्तरण: पुस्तकमा ओशोले यो बताउँछन् कि यौन ऊर्जा मानव जीवनको सबैभन्दा शक्तिशाली ऊर्जा हो। जब यो ऊर्जा सम्भोगबाट माथि उठाइन्छ र ठीक दिशामा रूपान्तरण गरिन्छ, यसले ध्यान, आनन्द, र आत्म-प्राप्तिलाई जन्म दिन सक्छ।

3. पशुता र मानवीयता बीचको पुल: ओशोले सम्भोगलाई पशुजगतबाट मानवजगतको पहिलो कदमको रूपमा देख्छन्। जब मानिसले यौन ऊर्जालाई सचेतन रूपले बुझ्न थाल्छ, ऊ आफ्नो आन्तरिक जागरणको मार्गतर्फ लाग्न सक्छ।

4. समाधि: समाधि भनेको पूर्ण ध्यान र आत्मज्ञानको अवस्था हो। ओशोका अनुसार, यौन ऊर्जाको सही प्रयोगले मानिसलाई समाधिको उच्चतम अवस्थामा पुर्‍याउन सक्छ। यसको अर्थ मानिसले आफ्नो इच्छाहरूलाई बुझेर, तिनलाई आध्यात्मिक रूपान्तरणको दिशामा अगाडि बढाउन सक्छ।

विवाद

यस पुस्तकलाई धेरै ठाउँमा विवादास्पद मानिएको छ, किनकि यसले पारम्परिक समाजका यौनसम्बन्धी दृष्टिकोणलाई चुनौती दिन्छ। केहीले ओशोको विचारलाई अप्राकृतिक या अत्यधिक बोल्ड मानेका छन्, तर उनका अनुयायीहरू यसलाई एक गहिरो आध्यात्मिक मार्गको रूपमा हेर्छन्।

निष्कर्ष

"सम्भोगबाट समाधितर्फ" ओशोको शिक्षाको एक महत्त्वपूर्ण हिस्सा हो, जहाँ उनले भौतिक संसार र आध्यात्मिकताबीचको सम्बन्धलाई नयाँ दृष्टिकोणले प्रस्तुत गरेका छन्। यो पुस्तकले मानिसलाई यौन ऊर्जालाई दमन नगरी सही रूपले रूपान्तरण गर्न सघाउँछ, जसले अन्ततः आत्मज्ञानतर्फ पुर्‍याउन सक्छ।

After sex ,men want to sleep, why ?

After sex ,men want to sleep, why ?  

After sex, men want to sleep and women want to chat. It has a biological reason.

In fact, after climax, the body releases a biochemical called prolactin. It relaxes the body and makes you feel tired.

Men climax most of the time but women do not climax every time. Therefore, men are more likely to get sleepy.

Other causes of insomnia in men have also been reported. In the book 'Why Do Men Fall Asleep After Sex' written by Mark Lenner and Lily Goldberg Doctors of Medicine, there are some other reasons.

According to Lehner and Goldberg, the body exerts itself during sex and climax, which causes the muscles to store glycogen for energy. Due to this, men feel sleepy.

According to Lehner and Goldberg, after climax there is a feeling of exhaustion, lightness, pleasure due to the combined effect of biochemicals called oxytocin, prolactin, gamma amino butyric endorphins. It helps in sound sleep.

In answering why women are aroused, Lenner and Goldberg also discuss the spiritual side of sex. According to him, male orgasm is outside the body, so energy is lost. On the other hand, a woman's climax causes an explosion of energy within the body.

It prevents energy loss. Because of this, even after the man reaches climax, the woman is thrilled and wants to talk.

According to experts, even if men sleep after sex, they should not sleep away from their partner or facing the other side. Instead, both partners should sleep in each other's arms. It increases intimacy and romance.

Why do you dream about sex?

Why do you dream about sex?

Why do you dream about sex?

Dreaming is when thoughts, feelings and sensations come unconsciously to the brain one after the other while sleeping. Despite many efforts in human history, why a person dreams a certain type of dream and what it means has not been fully understood.

Dreams are of different types (horror, adventure, fun and sexual).

Generally, when the reproductive system begins to function properly, sex hormones increase sexual anxiety and sexual tension on the one hand, and on the other hand, the production of semen also starts in this situation.

And the semen naturally finds its way out. When the sexual desire becomes stronger, a kind of sexual tension starts to increase. It is natural to calm it down.

In the situation where such an opportunity is not available through masturbation or sexual intercourse, a person dreams of sex. And in the case of men, ejaculation occurs in a dream and reaches the state of sexual climax. Even if a woman has such a dream, vaginal discharge will occur and she will get extreme pleasure.

Efforts or activities to calm sexual tension may not be enough. This sexual dream is a natural thing given by nature to reduce sexual tension in situations where there is no other way to calm it down.

On the other hand, when sexual contact or masturbation is kept normally, it may be reduced but not eradicated. In some cases, sex-dreams are seen continuously even when masturbation or sexual intercourse is done regularly and sufficiently.

Researches have linked sex-dreams with the amount of the hormone called 'testosterone' in the body, whether or not you see sex-dreams. It has been seen that the amount of 'testosterone' is higher in people who have sex-dreams.

From the point of view of sex, this hormone is present in healthy people, but a person may not dream about sex at all. It is natural to have sexual climax during sleep and not to have sexual dreams at all.